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Being In Service
By Raven Rowanchilde June 21, 2003

It is said, among Sufis, that Service is Love made visible. Service is not about fixing or helping.  Service is a way of seeing life. Dr. Naomi Remen, at the Open Heart, Open Mind conference in 1995, said, “when you help, you see life as weak, when you fix, you see life as broken.  When you serve, you see life as whole.”   To be in service is to allow another being dignity, integrity, sovereignty and respect on their journey.  To be in service is to be willing to connect more deeply, more intimately, to touch and be touched without wanting.  To be in service is to see another being as Enough  -- good enough, strong enough, worthy enough, beautiful enough, lovable enough, loving enough, whole enough.  To be in service is to be used in the service of something sacred –because we know, on a soul level – that we are servers of the Great Mystery of Life. 

Kahlil Gibran, in his poetic masterpiece, The Prophet, has this to say about service:  “There are those who give little of the much which they have – and they give it for recognition, and their hidden desire makes their gifts unwholesome.  And there are those who have little and give it all.  These are the believers in life and the bounty of life, and their coffer is never empty.  There are those who give with joy, and that joy is their reward.  And there are those who give with pain and that pain in their baptism. And there are those who give and know not pain in giving, nor do they seek joy, nor give with mindfulness of virtue; They give as in yonder valley the myrtle breathes its fragrance into space.  Through the hands of such as these God speaks, and from behind their eyes [God] smiles upon the Earth.”

With heartfelt gratitude, we would like to thank all who have been in service to Salaam Toronto Queer Muslim Community and Al-Fatiha for making this conference and this greater vision of life possible.

First, we’d like to thank our Sustainer -- for Your Infinite Compassion, Infinite Mercy, Infinite Love and Infinite Spaciousness, as we have come to realize, in the experience of this conference, the importance of coming into authentic re-connection with ourselves, with each other and with Divine Intention.  For being our example as we learn to be spacious with others so that healing may begin.  For Your bounty that came in the form of Strategic Allies who support our vision, and the synchronistic manifestation of legalized same sex marriage just days before our conference.  Alhamdullilah! We express to You our deep gratitude for always being available, even when we are not. For always inviting us to come into relationship with You, whoever we are, however we are, wherever we are and whenever we are ready. For spending Your Love in a way that is palpable, tangible and real to us. Thank you.  Allahu Akbar! -- which to some Queer Muslims means, God is Fabulous!

We would like to ask our steering committee coordinators to please stand.  Thank you for meeting, with grace and equanimity, the many challenges that came with organizing this conference:  the funding shortfalls, the challenge of SARS and INS profiling at the border, the homophobia, misogyny and criticism from some members of the non-Queer Muslim community, the long hours and hundreds of emails, daily. Thank you for your spaciousness in allowing our members to express their own, unique relationships to Islam without judgement, and therefore serving as an example to others. Thank you.

A special thanks to our volunteers and members, to the Al-Fatiha Foundation, who provided funding and advertising as part of their support.  Thank you to Imam Ghazala and Imam Daiyee, to our speakers, our Sufi friends and to our performers and participants, for having the commitment, the heart and the unbending intent to make this historic conference a necessary and integral part of this Sacred Dream we call reality.  We thank you all.

A very special thanks to Sufis and Mystics, past, present and future,

Who keep the Love Burning and the Spirit Alive.